As Prince William and Kate Middleton prepare for their royal wedding on April 29th, the eyes of the world are on them. It’s been reported that Williams younger brother Harry has plans to embarrass his big brother during his best mans speech. Harry told the BBC that he plans to “dig him in the ribs and embarrass him. Make him lose some hair.”

William won’t be the only one who has encountered embarrassment, according to a good friend of Kate Middleton the bride to be was bullied during her time at Downes House girls school in Berkshire. “She hated it, absolutely hated it. The girls were horrible. She was picked on because she was perfect,” former friend Jessica Hay told a British newspaper.

The issue of bullying remains an important one to Middleton, in place of giving gifts the royal couple have asked that wedding guests donate to the charity Beatbullying instead.